This Christmas...

It's that time of year again. People rushing through the malls, booking flights home, making plans to visit family and taking time off for the holidays. It's a time that many look forward to because they have family and friends to embrace during a time we call the "holidays". Society convinces us that it is the most wonderful time of the year. And for many, it is. But for a few, it is dreadful, depressing and lonely. 

Growing up, my family always held a rather large Christmas Eve party. My parents gathered close family and friends at this dinner party. Each year, they made sure that these people had a tradition they could hold on to through time. I've seen this party grow from 15 to almost 40 people. Every guest looks forward to this party and it's not only for my mother's famous biscotti. It's because it makes family feel good being together under one roof, and for those  joining the Zeroual tradition, it makes them feel welcomed and loved. It doesn't take much to make a family or a friend feel welcomed to such a tradition. It makes bonds and friendships run as deep as blood. 

I have learned so much from this tradition. My parents have opened their home to so many unconditionally and lovingly. Their kindness and generosity are what I love the most about the holidays. It's not the great food, the presents, the music or the games. It is the good feeling inside of me knowing my parents are genuinely exquisite individuals and a dynamic couple.

This holiday, don't think about the lavishing gifts you can give to one another. Think bigger! Look at those around you and make sure that you show people just how much they mean to you. It's not what you give to those around you, it's how you give. And, if all you can afford are good words, make sure you share abundantly. You never know who's day or holiday you might brighten. Make kindness and feel good words become a holiday tradition you carry with you all year long.