Communication: A Proactive Approach

Communication is key. We see this statement on cheesy bumper stickers, in every field and in every situation where communication either affected the outcome positively or negatively. While I may be one preaching to the choir or acting as a redundant recorder, I want to bring up a beneficial element that may give you the upper hand. Whether it is addressing a certain topic in your personal life or going for that big promotion, proactive communication is key, without it, you leave room for doubt, confusion and above all failure.

A proactive approach takes commitment, perseverance and determination. Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines proactive as: acting in anticipation of future problems, needs and changes. Anticipation affects us all. We create a sense of anticipation through people, time and situations. Our social construction over a certain element can lead us to trigger physical, mental and emotional signs of anticipation. Pro-activeness prepares you to face anticipation with confidence helping you to achieve your goals, needs and greeds with great success. Communication is not exempt from a proactive approach. In fact, your proactive approach to communication can lead you to get what you want, when you want it and how you want it.

Seems easy and simple? Well most people stay complacent. We don't want to hurt people's feelings or step on peoples' toes. We rather quietly work our way up a boring ladder instead of bursting the status quo bubble. In the end, we feel disappointed in ourselves, sometimes blaming others for our misfortunes or even blame it on bad timing. All this is caused by lack of communication. Communication is verbal and nonverbal. For example, want that big promotion at the office? Let your supervisors know how much you want that opportunity by doing your work with quality and exceed the expectation of your job requirements. Hard work pays off! Additionally, be verbal about your desire, speak to your superiors about your ability to be a productive member of your organization, company or entity. Talk about how you want to learn and grow in the "biz" and believe this opportunity to be a great one for you to do so. This is one example of proactive verbal and nonverbal cues to get what you want, when you want it and how you want it. Nothing is impossible until you say it is, and even then, you create your own limits.

Looking for a new goal this year? Pick one thing, just one to start off, and communicate about it. Whether it is having a better relationship with your significant other, starting your own business, getting in shape or landing that dream job, make a plan to proactively communicate with those that can help you get where you want to be. Help will be given to those who ask. I know, I know. It is easier said then done. But, give yourself a chance and try it, you might be surprised with the outcome and above all with yourself. I am not trying to have my very own cheesy bumper sticker or ugly coffee mug made, but I am trying to share a secret that has worked for me in the past and continues to do so.

Proactively communicate! Be the one that inspires yourself and others to achieve greatness in your daily routine and overall life.